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Welcome to Transformational Connection!

Transformational Connection and Surrendered Leadership are practices that involve looking at and being intimate with the structures of one’s personal reality, which includes how we make sense of experience, individually and collectively. We find these practices to consistently deliver deeply meaningful experiences, and believe a few clarifications now will likely make this more accessible to you. 

Because Transformational Connection is unique, carrying over assumptions from other practices can lead to misunderstandings about who we are, what we do, and how you are invited to engage. It is our intention to make it as clear as we can what Transformational Connection is and isn’t.

Responsibility

  • We see you as a free agent capable of honest self-assessment and responsible choice
  • This is an invitation to take responsibility for:
    • yourself and your experience
    • choices you’re making about what you’re accepting as true and significant
    • how you’re participating in and helping to sustain your situation
    • the beliefs and choices you’re bringing to the situation (wittingly or unwittingly) that are informing your experience.
  • We refer generally to the willingness to take responsibility in these terms as “owning your experience.”

Not Psychotherapy

Transformational Connection and Surrendered Leadership as we practice them lead to transformational growth, but we do this through surrender, self-leadership, and interconnection rather than aiming for healing outcomes directly (like many modalities do). While honouring a wide variety of wisdom and psychological discernments from many schools of thought, we do not follow a therapeutic model of diagnosis and treatment. Our method is educational. Our emphasis is connection.

Transformational Connection’s leaders and coaches are guides in a journey of presence, connection, and aliveness. We do not prescribe choices or actions. We do not see you as being in a therapeutic relationship with our facilitators. We work in the present moment, assuming wholeness that can include greater wholeness, exploring connection, staying mindful to notice the cost of reality choices and labels that too easily lead to misunderstanding or pathologizing. We bring a fresh set of eyes to what is happening, with the aim of understanding how updating our beliefs about what is happening can update our reality.

Transformational Connection and Surrendered Leadership:

  • Are practices of connection and meditation
  • Focus on the present moment.
  • Maintain a non-goal orientation that is encapsulated in the principle of “being with the other in their world.”

The Structure and Expectations of Leadership

You may have specific expectations about what a leader should do, or what a practice group should look like and include. We may not follow these expectations, partially because we may not know what they are (and you may not either!). Some examples are:

  • Telling people what to do
  • Stating the “right way” to act
  • Making sure everyone gets along
  • That the internal experiences of the leaders are not part of the process
  • That the leaders will provide a clear interpretation of what is happening, why it is happening and the way it is happening.                       

In lieu of these, we adhere to the precepts of “Surrendered Leadership,” inviting you to “lead” yourself in any way you feel is right for you—taking a bathroom break whenever you need, for example, asking a question—and to “lead” the group in full acknowledgement that others are practicing the same sort of self-leadership and to consider their responses as feedback to that leadership, in the context of the moment. This invitation to listen to the voice of inner direction follows the principle of “trust your experience.”

Is this Right for You?

Our workshops can be intense. People encounter places, states, emotions, beliefs, and sensations in themselves and others that are sometimes unfamiliar. We explore the unknown, the volatile, the ambiguous, as well as welcome emotions many deem as “negative” or “inappropriate” such as feelings of inadequacy, anger, sexuality, and joy. We refer to the willingness to feel difficult and uncomfortable truths as the “commitment to connection,” which of course includes a willingness to set appropriate boundaries, and speak a desire for space, distance, and non-contact. By attending our events you take responsibility for choosing to leave the practice or participate in any given moment—which might include getting intimate with these kinds of experiences.

We will often explore multiple sides of seeming opposites at once, such as independence and interdependence, chaos and order, agreement and disagreement. We believe this can reveal an underlying unity of the immediacy of experience.

If the above description of our workshops sounds potentially overwhelming or destabilizing for you, if you have mental illness or significant emotional challenges that you feel may be exacerbated by this type of transformational environment, or if you are not sure that you can be self-directed in taking care of your needs during the event, then we advise you not to enroll.

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Transformational Boundaries Foundational Course starting 28th October

Identity, Destiny, Responsibility

‘Every true boundary grants us an enriched flow of life force, clarity, and alignment.'

A 3-Session Online Introductory Course with Sean Wilkinson
28 October · 4 November · 11 November


Invitation

Boundaries are more than guarding ourselves or keeping others out; they are an opportunity for essential clarity, intimate connection, and realignment to a deeper source of life.

That might sound grand, but my simpler heart message is, I want to share something that unexpectedly humbled me on my journey—realising how deeply I needed it.

Transformational boundaries have deeply and tangibly supported me—and later, many of those I’ve worked with over the past 15 years.


Course Outline

In this introductory offering, I invite you into the core practices of Transformational Boundaries—a cornerstone of relational intelligence and inner leadership.

I see this course as an immersion in essential fundamentals for anyone developing an integrated—or cross-paradigmatic—spiritual life practice. It is definitely for you if you're simply wanting more ease and fewer subtle entanglements in your relationships.

Over three weeks, you’ll practise creating clear, present-moment boundaries as a catalyst for profound connection—not only with others, but also with your own depths.

Whether you’re new to Transformational Connection or ready to deepen your practice, this course is designed to ground you in the essentials.


✨ What You’ll Cultivate in This Course

Navigate relational complexity with clarity, while staying grounded in softness and presence
Invite intimacy while maintaining the spaciousness of clear distinction
Lead from your authentic desires, rooted in humility and self-awareness
Deepen your guardianship of your own destiny
Build self-trust while staying open to the truths and perspectives of others
Speak your yes with depth, and your no with care and integrity
Discern what is truly yours to carry, and what you can release with peace
Recognise that boundaries are not just for protection—they cultivate the ground where real relational magic can occur


🛠 What’s Included

Basic Option (Selected)

Gain a strong grounding in this essential topic.

  • 3 live online sessions with Sean Wilkinson
  • Free Introduction to Transformational Connection group practice as part of the course
  • One flexible drop-in session, guided by our Senior Leaders
  • 9 hours of total contact time
  • Course Fee: €198
  • No prior experience needed—just curiosity and willingness

Going Even Deeper (Recommended)

Deepen your learning with high-level coaching and additional practice.

  • 3 live online sessions with Sean Wilkinson
  • 1 live coaching session
  • Access to 3 Transformational Connection drop-in sessions, guided by our Senior Leaders
  • Introductory group practice included as part of the course
  • 14 hours of total contact time
  • Course Fee: €282
  • Register here

📅 Course Dates & Format

  • Tuesdays, 6pm-8pm CET
  • October 28 (1pm-3pm EDT / 10am-12pm PDT)
  • November 4 (12pm-2pm EST / 9am-11am PST)
  • November 11 (12pm-2pm EST / 9am-11am PST)
  • Location: Live on Zoom

This series will take place on zoom and will be led by Sean Wilkinson. The sessions will be recorded.

You're welcome to check out this live coaching session Sean did on Transforming boundaries and navigating inner experience.

If you are interested or have any questions, please email [email protected].